At Home Playdates (Are you prepared?)

When a mom asks you over for a playdate, do you usually redirect the playdate to a public setting? Playdates in public settings, are a lot easier than playdates in a home environment from my personal experience. The best thing to do, is wipe away the fear and start asking questions. As moms, it’s our job to eliminate as many surprises and make sure our children are safe. Here are some great questions to start with: Do any of the children have food or pet allergies. Are there any pets in the home, if so, how many and what kind? Inquire if anyone smokes in the home. Are guns in a safe place and locked away, if owned. What is the parent discipline methods? Next, discuss house rules with your child prior to the playdate. Moms make sure no feet on the furniture. No games to make your child play alone (avoid technology). Avoid bringing child’s favorite toy; the child may not be willing to share. Always pack your own snacks, and bring extra. Clean up after your own child, and help clean up after the playdate is over. Do not leave your host's home a mess.

Here's an article to give you more information:
https://www.verywell.com/kid-play-date-protocol-616878

Playdate Picture Time!

Post your favorite picture from your past playdate.

Feel free to give fun details!

 

 

Lilly Bear and I, was delighted to be invited for a playdate at the Michigan Science Center by a group of amazing moms. We had a blast, and the science center offered activities for all ages. However, we were having such a good time, I wasn’t able to take a lot of good pictures.

I strongly suggest that all moms who are ever in the Detroit area to schedule a playdate at the Michigan Science Center.

 

For more info visit the Michigan Science Center website.

 

Don't forget to post your pictures...

Why Playdate?

Most people run at the idea of a playdate. Why deal with more kids? What if I don’t like the parent? It’s very easy to look at all the negatives, but face it mom’s, we all need a little break, and conversation outside of Disney and toddler sing-a-longs. Playdates not only allow your child to meet new friends and play, but it also allow us moms to have relatable conversations with other moms who are glad to not be singing “Let it go” for the millionth time. 

 It’s very common to be nervous, but just like any other date, it’s always best to come prepared. I strongly suggest starting off with familiar faces and then branching off. If you know a mom, who has other mom friends, take the extra step to invite them all for a group playdate.  Don’t worry! “Moms Who Playdate” will make you a play dating pro.